how do i get her to...

[eigner]

how do i get her to... be more DOM in the bed room. she always wants to lay down and take it?

[raja]

from the little detail you've provided it sounds like she wants you to be more dominant in the bedroom. How can she get you to do that? Are you dominant or willing to act more so for her? Arrange a trade.

[cartwright]

I am dom. but sometimes it would be nice if she just took controle

[grow]

either that or she's simply not into it but yeah, a trade does sound good.

[derstine]

Try this Think about how you could explain your desires without making her sound pressured, and without making it sound like you need it in order to be happy.. even if you do. If it's something she's not able to provide, making it sound like you NEED it might make her feel inadequate. If it's new territory she should watch female dom porn to get ideas. I've been doing this with piss porn. My boyfriend is really into this fetish and I'm not comfortable with it because it's new to me.. I've been watching alot of piss porn to make it seem less.. unfamiliar. that way it wont be a big deal and I wont be nervous! :)

[Corny]

good answer!

[nerissa]

Thanks... I always get great feedback on advice.. I'd love to have a sex advice column lol

[Nikolaos]

thanks lovex that seems like it might be a really good idea. i will try it.